Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
THIS LOVE IS FAKE -
Monday, November 14, 2011
Jennifer Lopez Dating Dancer Casper Smart -
According to multiple sources, the “American Idol” judge has pulled a Britney Spears, and is now dating one of her backup dancers Casper Smart.
An insider told PEOPLE Magazine: “Yes, they are dating and having a good time. They’ve been getting more open with their flirting for week.”
Casper is an L.A. based dancer who has appeared in “Step Up 3D”, “Glee”, and “How I Met Your Mother.” However his relationship with Lopez isn’t to be taken so seriously, the insider adds. “It’s a fun fling, It’s not meant to turn into anything more.” Regardless, we guess it’s safe to say J.Lo has moved on from Bradley Cooper, who obviously needs to step his game up if he lost her to a backup dancer.
An insider told PEOPLE Magazine: “Yes, they are dating and having a good time. They’ve been getting more open with their flirting for week.”
Casper is an L.A. based dancer who has appeared in “Step Up 3D”, “Glee”, and “How I Met Your Mother.” However his relationship with Lopez isn’t to be taken so seriously, the insider adds. “It’s a fun fling, It’s not meant to turn into anything more.” Regardless, we guess it’s safe to say J.Lo has moved on from Bradley Cooper, who obviously needs to step his game up if he lost her to a backup dancer.
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Kim Kardashian Has to Pay Kris Humphries to Keep $2 Million Engagement Ring
It has long been rumored that the massive 20.5 carat, $2 million engagement ring Kris Humphries used to propose to Kim Kardashian was “donated,” but sources are now revealing that it was Kris who originally bought the ring.
And apparently, Kim loved the ring so much, that she made sure to include a clause in their prenuptial agreement that would allow her to buy the ring from Kris for the original purchase price … you know, “just in case” they were to divorce. Which they did, and now Kim wants to pay Kris for the ring!
And apparently, Kim loved the ring so much, that she made sure to include a clause in their prenuptial agreement that would allow her to buy the ring from Kris for the original purchase price … you know, “just in case” they were to divorce. Which they did, and now Kim wants to pay Kris for the ring!
Thursday, September 29, 2011
How to Date and Still Be a Good Mom
If you're recently single, you might wonder how you can balance your desire for a romantic relationship with the requirements of your children. Your dating habits can set the tone for your children's future relationships, both positive and negative. You must set a good example for your children while meeting your needs.
Step1
Wait until the right moment to introduce your children to your date. Your kids don't need to meet every man you date. When you feel the dating turning into a relationship, it's time to include the children.
Step2
Be truthful with your children. Although your intimate life is private, if your teenager sees your dates spending the night and you teach values that prohibit premarital sex, you're sending mixed messages.
Step3
Expect children to vacillate in their acceptance of your dates. Sometimes children like the date in the beginning, but feel threatened as the relationship progresses and they have to "share" their mother with another adult.
Step4
Maintain your priorities. Although you shouldn't be a martyr, you must keep your children's needs in first place. Scheduling a romantic getaway the same weekend as your daughter's piano recital reflects questionable decision-making and may hurt or offend your child. It also sets up the "him or me" situation you want to avoid.
Step5
Don't give too much weight to the advice of others who may have a bias. Your family and friends might have trouble with your new role as a dating mom. Only you can decide what's best for you and your children.
Step6
End the relationship if it's not working for you. If you maintain an unhappy relationship because your children adore the man, you risk repeating another failed marriage. Learning to cope with loss serves as a part of a child's life experience.
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Ladies How To Find Out if Your Man Is Cheating?
I can tell you both MEN and WOMEN do cheat but MEN do cheat more than women. Why is this? It’s because that is how it is. Easy…easy it’s like this WOMEN think of LOVE first while MEN think of SEX first.
Now ladies down here are ways you can find if your Man is cheating. Keep in mind that some men are very smart and its tough to find out.
Now ladies down here are ways you can find if your Man is cheating. Keep in mind that some men are very smart and its tough to find out.
Step1
If all of a sudden your man starts asking you where you're going to be and when you're coming home, that might be a red flag. If he makes up excuses to leave the house, like for example work called or he makes up a reason to go to the store at some odd hour and is gone way longer than he should be, that is also cause for wonder. Especially if he leaves right after receiving a mysterious phone call.
Step2
If you receive a lot of calls that hang up after you answer, that could be a bad sign.
Step3
If your man starts behaving strangely. If he starts telling you that he feels you're not making love to him enough when you know you are etc etc, this should be a concern. Often when a man (or even a woman for that matter) is cheating, they attempt to justify their actions to make them feel less guilt. If you see this kind of behavior keep your eyes open.
Step4
Pay attention to unusual smells he may have. Particularly the smell of an usual place or the smell of perfume that's NOT yours. Also be suspicious if he rushes off to shower right after coming home or if he smells like he's just had a fresh shower.
Step5
Start literally listen through walls. Pay attention to everything. Listen to his phone conversations or his talk with friends. You can even get a voice activated tape recorder and leave it in places such as his study or even in the car. You can take his cell phone and call yourself. This will act as a great spy device until he has to use his cell or until the cell loses signal.
Step6
Keep record of everything. Places he goes, like for example his friend's addresses. Keep as much information as you can. You never know when you might need to know something in order to catch him in the act.
Step7
If he's out super late, try calling hotels and asking for him. I know it would seem stupid to check in with his own name but men can be total morons.
Step8
Check his car for evidence. Long hair on the seat. The seat or seatbelt is readjusted etc. Cigarettes in the ashtray with lipstick on it. Women ALWAYS leave something behind. A hair clip, brush or even articles of clothing. Leave no stone left un turned and use your imagination. Check around for hand drawn maps or directions.
Step9
Pay attention to how good your man is looking. If he's dressing to impress, make sure it's for you.
Step10
Keep tabs on how much money he's spending and on what. If large amounts of money is disappearing that is unaccounted for, start asking questions.
Step11
Find out how far away his work is by driving there and back. Check the mileage on your car so you know the distance. Take a note pad and pencil and record your boyfriend/husbands mileage daily. If he takes a little long getting home, ask somewhat casually what took him so long and ask him specifically if he stopped off someplace.
Step12
While he's taking a shower, go through his pockets and wallet. There should be tons of evidence there. Most men are really stupid about hiding things that will get them busted. If you find phone numbers, call them and find out who they are. Also look for other evidence like condoms or pictures. Check his cell phone. Look at all the calls he's made and received lately. Smell his clothing and check his underwear for any obvious fresh stains.
Step13
When you say you're going to be gone for a certain length of time, show up early! If your man says he's working overtime at work, visit his job once in a while.
Step14
Or you can hire a private investigator they are many nowadays. If your stack along the way and you feel like you need assistance email us and will assist you accordingly.
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Saturday, September 24, 2011
YOUNG LOVE - Beyonce and her young fan
She's a hugger! An "empowered" Beyoncé shares a sweet embrace with a young fan while debuting her new fragrance, Pulse, Thursday in New York City.
Thursday, September 22, 2011
8 Things Guys Notice About You Instantly
You know that look where his eyes slide past you...then turn back? Wouldn’t it be great to know what stopped him? You totally can. “There are a few things men instantly observe when they meet a woman,” says Jackie Black, PhD, author of Meeting Your Match. Learn what they are and you can maximize your, um, assets. Then you’ll have your pick.
1. How Thick Your Hair Is
This is all about evolution. Since caveman days, dudes have been drawn to lush locks, which signal that a woman is healthy (translation: shaggable).
2. If Your Smile Is Genuine
Sometimes your eyes crinkle a bit when you grin. Most men are good at distinguishing the vibe of this kind of smile, which says you’re relaxed and fun.
3. The Size of Your Group
You don’t want a big bunch (it’ll be hard for him to approach) or just one friend (he’ll figure you wouldn’t desert her to talk to him). The perfect crew size? Three. Your two buds can keep each other company when you slip away.
4. The Pitch of Your Voice
Studies show that men are drawn to voices in a slightly higher register (think Kristin Bell’s), probably because — yep, evolution — they’re reliable signs of youth and reproductive health.
5. Your Hip-to-Waist Ratio
Yet again, blame eons of human history. Men instinctually look for baby mamas. If your waist is noticeably smaller than your hips, it signifies fertility — a huge point in your favor. A wide belt will emphasize that hourglass shape.
6. Your Glowiness
Guys associate a radiant complexion with good mental health. That’s because stress and anxiety usually cause breakouts and dull skin. So those lotions and bronzers you sweep over your cheeks? Totally worth it.
7. What’s Fake About You
Not personality-fake, but artificial-accoutrement- fake: lashes, hair extensions, etc. To guys, these things shout high-maintenance! Not good.
8. Your Eyes
People focus on eyes more than they do on any other body part. And dramatic eye makeup will have him zeroing in on your peepers even more.
Sources: Daniel Amen, MD, author of The Brain and Love; David Feinberg, PhD, Assistant Professor in the Department of Psychology, Neuroscience, and Behavior at McMaster University; Helen Fisher, PhD, Professor of Anthropology at Rutgers University and author of Why Her? Why Him?; Lisa Shield, dating coach in Los Angeles.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Cute Husband and Wife - Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries
After spending some alone time along Italy's Amalfi Coast, newlyweds Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries are on the move Friday as they arrive at Naples Airport.
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
WATCH - Kim Kardashian Tells How She Got Her Ring
We've already debated Kim Kardashian's massive engagement ring, and last night the reality star told Jay Leno just how she got it. Although she and Kris began discussing marriage within a month of dating, the proposal still caught her off guard. She told the whole story to Jay, and considering Kim's and Kris's height difference, he joked Kris must have been taller than Kim even down on one knee.
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Make The First Move Ms. Independent! Ask Him Out
It’s 2011!!! Women are making more money, are more independent and some believe that they don’t need a man as much as their mother or grandmother did. When a woman decides that she doesn’t need a man she is setting higher expectations for the next man crazy enough to approach her. A number of women know exactly what they want out of a man these days. That’s fine I suppose but there is one problem. MS. BIG & BAD 2011 INDEPENDENT WOMAN is afraid to ask a man out on a date! In your professional life, you are telling men what to do all day! In your personal life, you pick and chose which values to keep traditional.
The purpose of this article is not to change the tradition of the man pursuing the woman. If you have read anything that I have written, you know by now that my principle is that “All marriages and relationships are either successful or they fail based solely on the leadership of men.” Men are the problems in relationships, not women. The purpose of this article is to inform women of exactly what their role is in the dating game.
My boyfriend has one female friend. They’re really close, they hang out by themselves, he never asks me to join them, and oh, yeah — she’s gorgeous. Is he going to cheat on me with her?
Women your role, your purpose, your goal, what you should be trying to do is show the man that you are interested and available. That’s it. He has got to take it from there. Life is faster and much more complicated than it was 60 years ago when it was easier to meet a guy. My grandmother met my grandfather at the market. She was in her Sunday best in the fruit section taping on a watermelon. Pops was cool. This was when men would wear suits everywhere (Why did men stop wearing suits everywhere?) Grandma smiled at Pops. Her smile let Pops know that she was interested and available. A smile was all it took back then.
Thanks to Steven J Dixon
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
My boyfriend has one female friend. They’re really close, they hang out by themselves, he never asks me to join them, and oh, yeah — she’s gorgeous. Is he going to cheat on me with her?
Question -My boyfriend has one female friend. They’re really close, they hang out by themselves, he never asks me to join them, and oh, yeah — she’s gorgeous. Is he going to cheat on me with her?Answer - Ah, the age-old question: Can a man be friends with a woman he finds attractive? As a guy with a few hot friends myself, I’ll admit, I’ve definitely thought about fooling around with them. And the hotter the friend, the greater the temptation.
Still, you shouldn’t assume your guy is going to cheat just because he spends time alone with this girl. The fact that he never asks you to join them could just mean that he likes to talk to her about things he couldn’t talk about in front of you — namely, you and your relationship. And assuming the friend isn’t an evil skank, chances are, she has your back in those conversations and advises him on how to make you happy.
But sure, there’s a chance he will be or already has been unfaithful. You just need to trust that he’s not, and in order to do that, you need to get to know the girl. Since your guy isn’t making that happen — that’s an insensitive mistake on his part — suggest that he invite her along next time you’re hanging out in a group setting. Say something like “A bunch of us are going to this bar later on, and you should bring so-and-so — I’d love to meet her.” Don’t put any pressure on him or come across as suspicious. Then, when you see them together, let your woman’s intuition guide you. You’ll know if something’s fishy
Friday, May 14, 2010
Just Rumors Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey and Ne-Yo’s Girlfriend Are All Expecting
A lot of rumors have been going around lately regarding R & B singers Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey, and Neyo. What is really going on????
Less than a week since the divorce between Producer Swizz Beatz and R&B singer Mashonda was finalized, rumors have been circulating claiming that Alicia Keys is pregnant! Various reports on the web are saying that A. Keys is expecting her first child with her boyfriend Swizz Beatz. The couples have been dating for a year now and have received a lot of criticism and speculation over their relationship. And it’s quite ironic how this appears to come up right after the divorce was finalized. Great timing guys!
In addition, singer Mariah Carey is also rumored to be having a baby on the way after recently being spotted leaving a fertility clinic in Los Angeles . Nick Cannon must be having him a grand ole time inside of that one!
And we guess singer/songwriter Ne-Yo decided to join the fun as well because his new girlfriend Monyetta (this dude seems to have a new check every month!) is rumored to be pregnant as well. Damn that R&B music! It seems like everyone is getting knocked up these days!!!
All men are the same - Is Eddie Murphy Finally Accepting His Daughter with Melanie Brown?
"All men are The same, Look at what is happening here...Eddie once denied the child and now...."
Since 2006, Eddie Murphy and his ex Melanie Brown have not been the best of friends and on top of that, Mr. Murphy has literally had zero involvement with their 3 year old daughter Angel Iris… until now.
NY Daily News is reporting that Eddie has actually attempted to get to know his youngest daughter for the first time in her 3 year existence. Apparently, Murphy hosted some big bash at his LA mansion recently and Mel and her husband Stephen Belafonte attended the event with she and Eddie’s little girl in tow:
“All of the children were there for the party, and it appeared that they’re one big happy, blended family,” the source added. “They’ve both said some really nasty things about each other to the press,” says our source. “So needless to say, some guests were shocked.”
“Eddie’s ex-wife Nicole helped them reconcile their issues, too,” the insider said of Murphy’s ex-wife, with whom he has six kids. “Angel is Eddie’s youngest child, and Nicole wanted her children to know her. That helped Eddie to come around and get past all the animosity he had toward Mel.”
We think that it’s nice to see that Eddie Murphy is finally stepping up and accepting the fact that little Angel is indeed his daughter. It’s never too late to start building a relationship with your child, even if you did act like a big ol’ busta in the past…
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Things to Know About Halle Berry and Ex-Boyfriend Gabriel Aubrey
If you haven't heard yet, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry have reportedly split and are now ironing out custody of their 2-year-old daughter, Nahla.
"They are doing well and working in the best interest of their daughter," Berry 's attorney, Judy Bogen, tells E! news.
So what was their deal? Here are the five things you need to know about them.
Age Difference: At 34, Aubry is nine years Berry 's junior. Oh yeah, and he's hot, too.
No Rush to Tie the Knot: The Monster's Ball star hasn't had a good track record when it comes to men. Her first marriage to former Atlanta Braves slugger David Justice lasted four years and ended with a nasty divorce in 1997 amid reports he abused her and even left her with thoughts of suicide. She rebounded with hubby No. 2, singer Eric Benét, in 2001, but their union went belly up four years later after he made headlines for cheating.
Their Kid: Berry and Aubry have a beautiful daughter, Nahla Ariela Aubry, born March 16, 2008. (Berry also maintains a close relationship with India , Benét's teenage daughter from a prior relationship.)
His Résumé: The Montreal-born hunk is one of the world's highest paid models, having posed for the likes of Calvin Klein, Tommy Hilfiger, DKNY, Hugo Boss, Nautica and Next. With his blond hair and green eyes, he's a mainstay on People Magazine's Most Beautiful list. He and Berry met while shooting a Versace ad in 2005 and quickly hooked up.
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Stay strong, Halle .
Thursday, April 29, 2010
10 Ways To Get The Right Man For You
1. Choosing the obvious ones to avoid: addicts, child abusers, chronic gamblers, felons, “boys”, etc. If you always fall in love with the wrong type of men, you should get help. Please seek it. You need to fall in love with the right person
2. Going by sexual attraction alone. That’s a choice your reptilian brain is making which is to say not a choice at all. “Choosing” means weighing alternatives and being rational. Never in life do you want your reptilian brain in charge. It doesn’t “think.”
3. Choosing based on external qualities alone. It’s nice if he’s a hot hunk, but not if he's just another pretty face. Are you choosing a 37' powerboat instead of a man who owns one? His face will change. His toys may disappear. It's "for better or for worse," not "for as long as he can buy me Gucci handbags.” Seek TRUE love!
4. Rushing. Date him long enough to go through actual situations that test what you can't see and touch -- his values, priorities, manners, morals, and interests.
At first you’ll go to hockey games, WWF matches and beer drinking just to be with him, right? Do you really see yourself doing these things every weekend for the rest of your life?
On the same point, is he being nice to your kids just to get to you? Is he willing to go shopping with you and to the museums? Only time will tell.
5. Rushing. Give it time so he can sort out his feelings. Men tend to go from desire to action without thinking .This is why we see them make such poor choices in women, and then do the same thing again. You may be sure, but is he? Follow your heart AND your brain.
6. Rushing. You need time because even a workaholic will give you attention 24/7 at first. Only 6 months down the line will you discover that once he’s “got you,” and knows you love him, so he neglects you. Work comes first, then his golf. He’ll call you when it’s your turn.
7. Not checking out his attitude toward women.
How does he treat his mother? Your friends? His sister?
8. Trusting only your intellect. This means gathering facts, reading experts, not checking in with your intuition, and listening to advice blindly without looking into your heart as well.
Let’s say your best friend, who’s very perceptive, tells you he’s a womanizer. I’d give that some weight, but I’d check it out myself. It won't be hard. Give it time, stay awake and you’ll see.
Another example – You made the list of what you wanted. There he is in front of you, lacking 3 of the 6 items on your list, but you adore him. You really click. That’s a good time to go back and rethink your list. You’re always entitled to change your mind.
9. Trusting only your feelings. Come now, do you really think you can make a life with someone who is (admittedly) darling and sexy BUT hates your religion, has different morals and ethics than you do, has already alienated your father, wants kids while you don’t, refuses to “let” you work, and has already ordered you to get rid of your cat? This is like allowing yourself to fall in love with a married man. Just go stick an ice pick in your eyeball instead.
10. Misunderstanding the nature of feelings. Our emotions give us information. They don’t demand behavior. When I was a teenager I was dating a creep. My father told me I had to quit seeing him. “But I love him,” I said. Said he: “Love someone else.” No, you can’t manufacture feelings, but neither do they have to be acted upon. They can be taken “under advisement” and thought through.
Friday, April 9, 2010
Rihanna Finally, Admits She's Dating a Dodger
News won't get much less shocking today, but that doesn't make us any less happy to hear it.
Until now, Rihanna has played coy about her relationship with L.A. Dodger star Matt Kemp.
We first spotted them lip-locked in Mexico in early January, but a few days later his agent was in denial mode. They became decidedly less secretive around the time of the "Rude Boy" singer's birthday in mid-February and when the Dodgers outfielder introduced her to his parents early last month.
Now, she's making it official.
"He's my boyfriend," she said in a giggly confession to Ryan Seacrest this morning, hours after her hot catsuited appearance on American Idol. "It's new and it's fun. It's nothing too serious. I don't want anything that's going to take up so much of my energy and time right now in a bad way. I just want to have fun, and that's what it's about."
Friday, April 2, 2010
Dating a married man
I was taking a 20 minute walk to the bus station a couple of weeks ago. A very nice looking man drove past me then stopped for a moment, and reversed his car next to me. He asked, “Where is this beautiful lady walking to in this heat?” I answered, “On the way to the bus station”. He asked, “What is her name?” I said, “She’d rather not tell.” The guy smiled and then proceeded to ask if I wanted a ride to the bus station. I said “no thanks”, but then after some persistence from him and compliments about how my complexion is just right and the sun might damage it, I accepted. In his car we introduced ourselves to each other. He looked like someone who was in his mid-thirties. He was very well groomed and polite. We spoke about the earthquake in Haiti and his concern for Haiti got me to see a very sensitive side in this man. I actually found myself interested to know more about him. We chatted for about five minutes and it felt like we knew each other forever; we got along well.
He stopped the car at the bus station and asked if we could hook up sometime for some coffee as he only worked for a few hours a day. I was just about to say yes but then noticed a wedding band on his finger… Now that created this scenario in my mind:
• We would meet up as platonic friends at first.
• We had so much in common and I could tell by the way he looked at me that he was physically attracted to me.
• I thought he was really good looking, and he was my hero for that day having given me a ride to the bus station; I was in a vulnerable situation and he had saved me.
He was a good man.
• It was obvious that after a few meetings, we would take the relationship to another level, a romantic level.
• Then I would be the other woman, like my friend Jane.
I thanked him for the ride and opened the door to his car. He asked for my mobile number and I said “no. Bye” and crossed over to the bus stop. I did not want to be Jane. I refused to be Jane.
My colleague Jane is currently having an affair with a married man. It got me wondering why women do this, and also, as a woman, are you just completely disregarding that there is another woman in this triangle who will feel loads of pain, hurt and hatred when and if she found out? In the past few years, I have heard from so many of my acquaintances how their husbands have had affairs with other women. That prompted me to find out more why women do this to each other. For more on dating please visit http://tricksfordating.blogspot.com/
Friday, March 26, 2010
Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After Cheating On Him
Things started out great between the two of you but temptation got the better of you and now you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back after you cheated on him. Here are some tips for getting your ex back and strengthening your relationship in the process.
1) Trust is an elemental ingredient to a successful relationship and you betrayed your boyfriend's trust in you. Do not try to defend or rationalize your actions to him; doing so will only further alienate him. Admit to yourself and to him that what you did was wrong. And if you are not truly remorseful please move on and spare him the humiliation of having to find out you cheated on him again.
2) Give your relationship with your ex boyfriend time to heal. Cheating on your boyfriend is not a skinned knee; it's a deep gash and it's going to take time to heal properly. You have wounded one of his my prized and fragile possessions, his self image. Demanding that he immediately forgive and forget, and that the relationship return to its "pre-cheat" status is not how to get your ex boyfriend back after you cheated.
3) Be willing to start over; be patient, take baby steps. At the beginning of your relationship you both moved cautiously, feeling one another out both physically and emotionally until you built trust. In order for that to happen again this relationship's reconstructive surgery must be approached with much clear-headed thinking and less emotional reacting than the first time around. Do not expect an invitation to his bedroom after your first date.
There are some thoughts on how to get your ex boyfriend back after you cheated on him. They won't always work, of course; sometimes the wound is just too deep to heal. But, just like a broken bone, if the relationship does heal, it will likely be far stronger than before the break took place.
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Love Rules For Every Heart
Love is an expression that is the essence of every relation, it is a sense of delight not in a person but in everyone, within ourselves and in life. When love is felt, beauty, excitement and passion surround the world naturally.Love gives courage, make one confident, motivates, and brings out our inner-self and gives it a vision. Love gives expression to what the heart feels. It is a glorious melody and its beauty grows with the passage of time. It is a deep rooted feeling that spreads through the branches of affection and concern. The greatest comfort is when without explaining, the understanding says it all.
Love exists everywhere, and in every heart. It gives many beautiful reasons to feel good and through this emotion, many other emotions develop. It takes any form and keeps every heart young forever. It’s true that if a tinge of love is added to life then every incident that life has in store for us takes a beautiful shape.
Love is a strange feeling that can be one of the most amazing in the entire world. Sometimes the emotions linked with love are blissful, and there are times when they can really hurt. In the end, love is something most of us, if not all of us, will encounter. While there are many different ways to specify love and there are several ways to love someone.
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